In today’s episode of The Turquoise Table, host Kristin Schell interviews Leslie Verner, who is sharing with us about hospitality and loving others well. Leslie recently published her book Invited: The Power of Hospitality in an Age of Loneliness, which dives into the epidemic of social isolation as a result of us lacking face-to-face interaction with one another. Leslie shares when she’s personally felt lonely in her life, specifically in life transitions, such as big moves across the country and her freshman year of college.
Leslie conveys just how crucial hospitality is to community, anywhere in the world. She lived in China for five years and was invited into the homes of her students and neighbors, even when she couldn’t speak the language well. Once she experienced being welcomed into the homes of others as an outsider, she knew how important it was to welcome people into her home as well. When contemplating whom she should help within the community, Leslie happened to be reading the story of the Good Samaritan, where God reminded her to stay on her Jericho road and pay attention to the right-next-to-you people.
When Leslie was single, she would constantly invite people over or go out to dinner with them, but it resulted in burnout. With the help of her introverted husband, Leslie has learned to put some boundaries in place so that she isn’t committed every night, which has prevented hospitality fatigue. The importance of reflecting on why you are inviting people over is key, in terms of evaluating whether you are inviting because you think you should or because you feel lonely or perhaps someone else needs a friend. Though hospitality is the life source that produces the very cells our collective humanity needs to function, it is still important to establish personal boundaries which will allow you to sustainably continue to invite people into your life and space as you continue your journey of hospitality.
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- Website: Scraping Raisins
- Twitter: @leslie_verner
- Instagram: @scraping_raisins
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Podcast Discussion Guide
Now it’s your turn!
Who are the “right-next-to-you” people in your life? Have you considered praying for them? Inviting them for coffee or to grab a bite to eat?