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Clean Out the Fridge Party

“I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let’s face it, friends make life a lot more fun.”

~ Charles R. Swindoll

 

Within seconds of sending the text my phone lit up with responses:

I’m in!

Sounds perfect.

Love it. But what if we all show up w/brownies?

I responded to the last text:

Worse things could happen. And no one ever has leftover brownies.

The flurry of texts was prompted by a simple invitation I sent to several girlfriends. I didn’t overthink who to invite, but knew these particular friends had husbands who worked late or traveled frequently.

Dinner tomorrow. Early. 5ish. Bring what u have in fridge/pantry.

Come as u r. Kids too

Emily Post would probably roll over in her grave knowing I extended a dinner invitation via group text, but sometimes the best gatherings are spontaneous. Don’t get me wrong, I love planning a party, but an impromptu get-together in your home with friends can be magical.

Being Busy Takes its Toll

So often I let the busyness of life become the boss of me.

I’m not doing bad things, just too many good things – carpools, school meetings, track meets, grocery and dry cleaning runs, cheer tryouts, volunteering, writing deadlines, orthodontist appointments – you know, all the daily activities that come with being a wife and raising four children.

Before I know it, it’s been far too long since I’ve connected on a meaningful level with my friends.

Sure I see my friends, but often our exchanges are quick and usually contain catchall phrases like “it’s all good” or her fake twin “I’m fine.” Neglecting friendships takes its toll.

We were created to be in relationship with one another. Friendships matter greatly to our overall health and well-being. When we neglect to nurture relationships a part of our soul dries up and puts the friendship at risk. Filling our cup back up, so to speak, doesn’t have to be hard or require a major event.

Come As You Are, Bring What You Have

The night after I sent the invi-text-ion, three girlfriends and their children showed up with the most random assortment of leftovers. Someone brought half a wheel of Brie {from a party the week prior}, which paired perfectly with the half empty box of crackers from another friend’s pantry. We had just enough fruit salad, plus a Caesar salad kit, to round out three BBQ ribs, two slices of brisket, and a plastic container of spaghetti. Even the children contributed to the feast with a package of Skittles found in a backpack and store-bought cookies that came home from a Spanish class party.

Eclectic? You bet – in a very loaves and fishes kind of way. With little or no pre-planned effort we came together for an evening of friendship and fun. We spread our leftovers over The Turquoise Table and marveled at the manifestation of a true feast.

We talked about all the things girlfriends talk about when they finally have time together outside the carpool or grocery store lines. At the end of the night, with full hearts and tummies we all wondered, “why don’t we do this more often?”

We learned a valuable lesson that night: There are no hard and fast rules about how to gather or what you eat. The blessing comes when we simply show up and are present in each other’s lives.

And, thus the tradition of the Clean Out the Fridge Party was born.

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  1. Susan says

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    Years ago I couldn’t afford to go on a singles’ retreat with the rest of my group . . . so I invited people I knew would be around to a “Poverty Party.” It was the same kind of menu–people brought what they already had in the house. One girl brought half a batch of cookies because she didn’t have enough ingredients to make a whole batch. We had a great time and ended up watching Fiddler On The Roof, a movie about poor people that was ON TV so we didn’t even have to pay for entertainment. Good times.

    • Kristin says

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      Susan, What a great story! Now I’m singing “If I Were A Rich Man.” You were blessed with riches of provision with that party and mostly friendships. Thanks for sharing. xo, Kristin

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